Report the incident, not the whole relationship
A fictional character’s reply unexpectedly asks for a real address, or a displayed visual appears inconsistent with the provider’s rules. You want the service to examine that specific incident without sending unrelated months of conversation.
Both services describe moderation. MyLovely’s Terms, section 9, give [email protected] as the report address and ask for URLs, screenshots, timestamps and a clear description. SpicyCam’s Content Policy offers an in-app report feature and [email protected] for details of a violation.
This is a reporting guide, not an instruction to generate prohibited material as a test.
Build a small incident record
Keep the character or room identifier, approximate time, the relevant reply or visual and one sentence explaining the issue. Include the immediately preceding context only if it changes the meaning.
A useful description is specific: “This reply requested a real address after I asked about an invented travel scene.” A broad claim such as “the character is unsafe” gives the reviewer less to locate. Do not add the real address to prove that you received the request.
If a screenshot includes unrelated account details, crop or redact your copy before sending it, while retaining an original for your own record. Do not alter the actual incident in a way that changes its meaning.
Identify whether the incident is text or visual
SpicyCam says its team prepares and reviews all visuals, while text replies are AI-generated and action buttons trigger existing clips. A report about a prepared clip should identify the room/action or asset; a report about a reply should identify that exchange. Text does not create a new visual there.
MyLovely describes generated chat and media and permits moderation review under its Terms. Record which output you are reporting rather than assuming one conversation identifier locates every picture or video.
A report is not a privacy or billing request
MyLovely’s privacy policy separately provides data-rights and model-improvement routes. Reporting an incident does not automatically opt out, erase the account or cancel renewal.
SpicyCam’s Terms describe one-time Premium and credit packs, and its privacy policy addresses provider processing. A private session means a one-to-one audience; it is not evidence that a report cannot be reviewed by the service.
SpicyCam’s policy says reports are reviewed within 24 hours. Treat that as its stated handling target, not a response time we tested. Keep the submission and any acknowledgment. Choose the published channel that fits the incident and send enough evidence to make it actionable, without assuming a fictional character is a human support agent.